Women of these days have been blamed for being too “money conscious”.
The truth of the matter is, it’s not about requesting for money, it is about how you go about it.
The duty therefore lies on a woman to also come up with the best way to get whatever she needs without being added to the line of ladies considered to be gold diggers
The only time a man might call you a gold digger is when you prove to him you love his money more than himself, aside that, he will never see you as a gold digger even if he spends all his life savings on you. It’s all about how you go about it.
Ladies who really know how to get money from their guy, don’t even ask for it before it’s provided. You should understand the ideologies of guys to get along smoothly with them.
If you really want to know how to easily get your man to spend on you, kindly come with us let’s show you some simple ways to get it unconsciously
1. Be Faithful No man will want to know that the woman he spends on also cheats and actually spends his money on another man.
Being faithful gives a man the confidence to spend more on you because he has the assurance you love him and not his money and so spending on you doesn’t really affect him and he also knows giving to you will definitely come back to him and that’s love. You can’t be a cheating woman, playing many men and expect a man to still spend on you when he finds out.
2. Be Loyal Every one of us expects the person closest to us to be loyal. Each one of us definitely loves someone who supports and is ready to do anything to be with us. That’s human nature.
If you deny your guy in front of your friends, I don’t think he will be eager to spend on you or give you money when he finds out. Let him have that confidence in you
3. Help Him Pay Some of the Bills You don’t live with him but you are always visit him at his place, you’re both working or you have your own business, what really stops you from paying some of his bills? When you do it, apart from him appreciating you the more, he’s likely to pay you back in threefold when he has money.
When you go to the restaurant on a date, what stops you from paying the bill? These little gestures actually get to a guy and so when he’s spending on you, he has the confidence he’s not wasting his money because you’re worth it.
4. Earn Money Yourself To be able to handle point 3 above, you need to be financially stable yourself. These days, guys love ladies who are hardworking, no guy wants a lazy lady who sits her ass home and does nothing. Same way, a lady wouldn’t want a guy who is lazy and does nothing#
When you’re working and making your own money, guys respect you the more and coupled with the fact you are loyal to him as highlighted in point 6 will make him even spend more on you because he might feel intimidated to think you’re making enough and so what he’s even giving you is not enough.
As a Lady, if you’re financially stable and do not demand too much money from your guy and handle your own bills, you get maximum respect from him.
5. Buy Him Expensive Gifts Too Talking about buying him gifts, we are not talking about the regular routine of buying Cards, Underwear and Handkerchiefs, Hell NO!!!!
What really stops you as a woman from also buying him a phone, a Shoe Classy Wristwatch or even an expensive perfume? Buying him expensive gifts actually helps put your bid high. This is because when it is his time to also buy you something, he’s forced to buy you more.
If you keep buying him handkerchiefs as gifts, he will also keep buying you cheap bras. Lol