Some men are naturally shy while some don’t even know how to start.The
thing is, wooing a girl in public is simple and a lot easier than when
she’s alone. Here, we have put this down to help you be a man, Lol. Read
carefully to the end.
Eye Contact: If you see someone you’d like to meet, try to make eye
contact before talking to her. Once you catch her eye, try to maintain
eye contact. If you repeatedly make eye contact with someone, it could
be a sign that she wants you to approach her. Three glances from a girl
might signal that she’s interested. Why are eyes so powerful? Science
seems to suggest that eye contact activates our brain’s reward center,
the ventral striatum. What does this mean? Our DNA is telling us that
someone staring at you is cause for celebration! Smile. A friendly smile
is a great way to show someone that you’re interested in them. If she
returns the smile, that’s a good sign that she might be interested. Once
you’ve exchanged a few glances and a smile, check her body language.
This will give you a better idea if she’s actually interested.
2. Check Body Language: While reading another person’s body language,
male or female, is NOT an exact science, there are definitely a few
behaviors to look for that will signal that the person is not interested
in engaging in conversation. Respect the girl’s right to be left alone.
Is she facing away from you? Are her arms crossed? Is she listening to
music, or reading a book? Is she frowning? Is she specifically looking
away from you? While not perfect indicators, expressions and body
language like this probably means leave her alone. Body language is not
everything. Women are taught from childhood that they must be pleasant
no matter what. If you are going to approach her, pay attention to how
she reacts and what she says.
3. Make Plans To Meet Again: If she seems interested and you are still
interested, try and make plans for a future meet-up. Give her your phone
number or email address. This way she feels in control of the
situation. You’ll know for certain that she’s interested if she follows
up. Ask for her phone number or email address. If she says no, leave it.
She doesn’t owe you anything further, even if she did enjoy your
company.Ask her on an instant date. Ask her if she wants to grab coffee
somewhere. Always choose a public place for an instant date; you want
her to feel comfortable. Have a coffee shop in mind if you do ask, or
ask her if she knows a good place. That way she will feel in control of
4. Be Respectful: This is the absolute most important part of
approaching a girl in public, or in any situation. If she is not
interested back off. Remember, different girls have different tastes in
guys, or no taste in guys. One girl might just feel that you’re not her
type. However, there might be another girl out there who will think
you’re awesome. Now that you’ve finished reading this, feel free to
share on your social networks. Your friends will thank you for sharing
this piece of info with them. Goodluck guys!