It’s only natural that we want boyfriends who do the same but it’s that mentality that enables us to brush off some pretty awful things a partner can say”.
“Remember that someone who loves you chooses what he says to you based on the goal of always making you feel loved, supported, encouraged, inspired, accepted and brave, so, if your boyfriend says something hurtful, you can’t write it off as him just being honest, a man who really loves you will find a way to send every message in the most loving, tender, sweetest package possible”.
It’s your family or me, a man who truly loves you will always want you to be happy and won’t tell you to choose between him and your family and will love your family no matter how bad they are.
Maybe you should quit he will always advise you to keep on trying to achieve your dreams and never give up.
It’s your job or me, someone who loves you will want you to have everything that makes you happy and something that empowers you.
You should be more like so and so, a man who loves you will be proud of you no matter your flaws and won’t want to change anything about you or make you want to be like anybody else.
“You should have more realistic goals when a man loves you, he thinks you’re capable of anything, he sees greatness in everything you do, he has possibly unrealistic ideas of what you can achieve because you’re just so impressive to him”.
You are too fat, no sensible man will want to make his woman insecure and feel less attractive instead he will find a sweet way to pass his message across. You’re being clingy
“You’re being clingy, even if you are having a particularly needy day, a man who loves you wouldn’t say that to you, he knows everybody has days like that—he would think it was cute that you were leaning on him so much and he would lovingly and delicately tell you he just needed a little room to do his thing”.
“My ex don’t do things like that when a man finds that special someone, everybody else from his past just melts away, he doesn’t compare girlfriends anymore; you’re the one, and the others were not”.
Do you have to laugh/chew/dance that way?when someone loves you, they don’t see your quirks as flaws—they see them as quirks, they love the way you make a little noise when you chew or snort when you laugh or dance”.