Sometimes as a man, you can waste your time pining for girls who
don’t really like you all that much, while missing out on girls who
adore you. It’s awful to have to confront the idea that the girl of your
may not actually be that into you. But if a lady gives you several of
the following signs, there’s a huge probability that she’s wasting your
1. She replies with “I’ll let you know” or “I’ll think about it” when you make a request.
A girl that likes you doesn’t have to ‘let you know’ or think about
everything. A girl that likes you will always be excited when you ask
her things or make requests. We all know that when a girl says “I’ll let
you know,” what you asked for always ends up not happening. So if these
statements come up a lot, make an exit.
2. She always gives excuses when you want to meet her.
As a general rule: If a woman is into you, she’ll make time to hang
out with you, no matter how busy she is. Even the busiest of women will
put aside a day or a few hours a week to see you. If she’s always too
busy for you, you should be skeptical.
3. She never texts you first.
When you’re texting and calling first and she never takes the
initiative to be the first to text or call you, it’s a clear sign
something is off and you may be wasting my time. If you’re making 75%
effort and she’s only making 25%, it’s unfair to you and you’re being
played like a fiddle. Walk away.
4. Or her replies to your texts are very brief.
If you’ve received your 10th “K” or “yup” text in a row from her, I
am sorry to break it to you, but there’s nothing going on between you.
Same applies if she’s always responding with emojis only. If you are not
even receiving enthusiastic responses to your texts. it’s a pretty
clear sign that it’s time for you to move on.
5. She never wants to come to your place yet you’ve known each other for a while.
Meeting in public is kinda fine if it’s the first date – most women
prefer to meet in a public place at first just to make sure you’re not
creepy or dangerous. But if she continuously insists on hanging out in
public places, it’s a bad sign. She doesn’t want to get intimate with
6. She only texts or calls when she needs a favor.
Sometimes girls “use” guys for favors and then magically disappear
when they don’t need anymore “help”. You may see it as being a cool and
nice guy by helping her out, but you also have to be smart enough to
recognize when “helping her” is becoming too much a pattern, you’re
getting nothing in return, and she says things like, “Aww you’re so
sweet and such a great friend!”
7. She avoids being alone with you.
Maybe she does make time to hang out with you but it’s always in a
group setting. Even if it’s in a house, she only meets you when there
are friends and other people around. It’s always in a spot where she
won’t be one-on-one with you. This means she’s trying to avoid giving
you the opportunity to make a move and/or she doesn’t want to lead you