Below are 5 reasons you shouldn’t have s*x with her..
A girl walks by and catches your eye. Your buddies next to you are
quick to chime in with all of the reasons that you should go for it.
Chat her up, buy some drinks, and take her back to your place. You’ve
done it before and certainly can do it again.
So, we’re here to shed some light on why you should hold off before
the room goes dark, your clothes come off, and it’s too late.
1. A little restraint now can go a long way later
If you’re looking for someone to settle down with, having sex with her
the first chance you get probably isn’t the best idea, according to
Dating Coach Evan Marc Katz. “It’s easy to find someone you find
attractive enough to sleep with; it’s hard to find a partner that you
think you can call a partner,” Katz says. “Given that most people hop
into bed first and then ask questions, why not just reverse the process?
Go out on 5-6 dates, enjoy some foreplay, and when you think you’re
ready to be in a relationship, then you have sex.” So, before you end up
between the sheets with the next girl you meet, figure out if you’re
looking for a one-night stand or a “One Life Stand” as the British band
Hot Chip sang about.
2. She’s a stage-5 clinger
If Wedding Crashers taught us anything, it’s that Vince Vaughn and Owen
Wilson are one heck of a comedic duo. If it taught us anything else,
it’s that you must avoid Stage Five Clingers at all costs (and sleeping
with tons of women just for the sake of sleeping with women will
probably leave you feeling empty inside). “If she’s needy, she’s going
to be sucking your energy like a vampire,” Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt
says. “If she’s too into you, that’s not healthy either [and she may be]
after other things.” You’ll also never be able to leave her because she
will find you…
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