A woman in Ibadan has shocked the court
of law with her narration of the tortuous se.xual experience she
undergoes in her matrimonial home.
A 43-year-old woman, Omolara Acchoyame,
recently dazed her husband before the Igando Customary Court in Lagos
State, when she alleged that s*x with her husband was torture.
Omolara, who had filed for divorce
proceedings against her husband, Solomon Acchoyame, alleged that he
exhibited strange behaviours while making love to her.
She alleged that he waited for her to
sleep, then without waking her up, just opens her clothes and had s*x
with her, adding that she never enjoyed this.
Omolara further told the court that her
husband had three things which he used during s*x for lubrication,
listing them as aboniki balm, mentholatum and dusting powder, adding
that these things made her hate having s*x with him.
She testified that she met her husband
14 years ago and bore him three children, adding that their major
quarrel was based on the fact that she didn’t know what he’s doing for a
fought most times before I left home because I don’t know what he
does for a living. He goes to his village three times a week and I don’t
know the reason for this since his parents are dead and when he comes
back, he would say he does not have any money.
would go to my sister to borrow money for him for his next trip. Yet,
he will come back and curse me and my family and he doesn’t come home
“My husband does nothing for a living. Please dissolve the marriage so that I can start my life all over again,” she said.
In his defence, the 44 year-old husband
stated that when he met his wife at the University College Hospital
(UCH) in Ibadan, Oyo State, things were going on well for him and it
was with his money that he trained her in the university.
Solomon said that after a while, he started experiencing financial difficulties and he couldn’t complete his education. “I want to perform my obligations as a father and husband, but I am handicapped,” he said.