We live in a world where a lot of men
jump from one woman to another as if its a game and women no longer
trust them. Listed are warning signs of a man who likes to womanize.
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The Womanizer is a man who isn’t ready
to settle down yet, but he’ll do anything to convince you that he is.
He’ll tell you you’re the love of your life and that you’ve got great
eyes, great legs and great everything.
But how do you know when you’ve got a
womanizer on your hands and not the genuine article? Let’s take a look
at the top 10 warning signs of a womanizer.
1. He Gets Your Name Wrong
Yesterday you were Rita, today you’re
Lisa and tomorrow you’ll be Priscilla. Sure, he says he’s got fifteen
aunties and five different moms but you should know deep down that he’s
actually got too many single ladies in his life.
2. He’s Super Vain
For a lot of women, having a great sense
of humour is the first trait we look for in a prospective partner. But
if a man is a womanizer, it’s highly likely that his sense of humour
cuts dead as soon as you touch his immaculate hair.
Don’t try to touch his suits either because they cost a bomb.
“Please tell me you did not just put my dry-clean only suit in the wash? I. MIGHT. DIE.”
3. He Never Lives Up To His Word
We’ve all felt a rush of blood to our
heads as our man tells us what he’s going to do for us. He’s going to
take us away for a romantic weekend, introduced us to his family, and
basically capture the moon for us.
It all sounds so exciting and we instantly buy into his dream. His words have swept us off our feet.
After a few weeks and months, though, he
still hasn’t made good on his word. You’ve still not been away for a
weekend together (as a matter of fact, he seems to spend most of his
weekends away on his own), and you haven’t even met his family. Is this
guy for real and are his endless list of excuses just a cover-up? You
4.He Has A Reputation
If women have come up to you or messaged
you on Facebook that your new man has got a reputation, you shouldn’t
swiftly dismiss this accusations as manifestations of jealousy. Instead,
you should hear them out and make up your own mind.
5. He Only Seems To Appear Later At Night
From my experience, this is the biggest tell-tale sign of them all that you’ve got a perennial womanizer on your hands.
Your man should be available day and
night, and not just “any time after ten PM.” It just isn’t good enough
that he only makes a cameo appearance when the sun has set. Sure, he
tells you that he’s been working late or whatnot, but you know deep down
that something just doesn’t seem right here.
A man who isn’t a womanizer will want to see you at all times, and not at the witching hour only.
6. When He Compliments You Too Much
They say that when a guy compliments us
too much it usually means they’re feeling guilty about something, or
they’ve got something to hide.
Sometimes, guys will shower us with compliments whenever they’re feeling good about something – such as a spot of womanising.
When a man looks into your eyes and tells you how beautiful you are, it’s sincere and genuine.
But when he’s hyper and won’t stop
covering you with compliments about your eyes, your legs, your hair,
your bum et cetera, you should be on your guard.
7. He Moves Really Fast
You haven’t even introduced yourself and he already wants to buy a house with you and have all your babies. Red flag.
8. He Locks His Phone
We all locked our phones when we were kids (still no idea why), but no normal adult does this in 2106.
Except womanizers, of course.
If you notice that his phone is
constantly buzzing and he’s always textingsomeone, it’s a pretty big
warning sign. But if he also locks his phone so that you can never
access it, it’s a full on red-alert that he’s not the man for you.
9. He Doesn’t Call Back For Ages
You’ve just had a great night with him
that you both seemed to enjoy. You had a laugh, some dinner and a bit of
romance. It went so well.
But then he doesn’t return your call for days afterwards. What gives?
Eventually, of course, he will return
and say that he was busy or something equally empty. He’ll want another
giggle, some more dinner and a bit more romance again.
Take all this as a warning sign. He only
wants you when he’s got a few needs to fulfil. Once they’ve been taken
care of, he’s off to look for other adventures.
10. He Flirts On Social Media
Facebook is often a great place to find
out whether or not your man is a womanizer. If he isn’t a womanizer, his
photos and comments will be totally normal and respectful. There might
be pictures of him enjoying a drink with the lads, and maybe one or two
of his mom.
If, however, he can’t get enough of the
opposite sex, you can expect to see lots of photos of him on regular
nights out with lots of different girls. You’ll also notice flirty
comments and invitations to hang out with all kinds of women you’ve
never heard of before. No matter how much he tells you he loves you,
it’s clear that he can’t control his appetite for girls.