Women should never wait around for a man who's having second thoughts about proposing marriage
According to an article by Krystle Crossman of Healthy Black Woman
women should never wait around for a man who's having second thoughts
about proposing marriage because they deserve more than that.
Here's what she wrote:
Dr.
Sherry Blake is a well-known celebrity clinical psychiatrist. She has
people send in questions and she answers them in a column with Essence
magazine. One of the most recent questions came from a 33 year old woman
who says she has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for three
years. She said that they moved in together a year after being together
and she asked him to marry her.
The woman stated that
her man laughed at her the first time she asked him to marry her. She
waited another year and then asked him again. This time he told her “no”
and listed out some reasons as to why they couldn’t get married with
one of the reasons being that she asked him. She is now thinking of
leaving him because she does not want to be a girlfriend forever. She
asks Dr. Sherry if she is moving too fast or if leaving is the right
thing to do.
Dr. Sherry responded that it was time
to pack her things and go. She says that with all of the time that has
been put into the relationship and he still didn’t ask her to marry him
and also said “no” to her, it showed that he was not ready to be a
husband and may never be. Dr. Sherry says that when he laughed at the
woman the first time that she asked him it showed a lot of disrespect.
She feels that there is no relationship that is worth the kind of
trouble that this woman is going through right now.
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