Sometimes, it is not just about what you
do in the bedroom, but how you do it. Sure, you might be well versed on
the perfect se x positions, but they will do no help if you do not
understand what kind of se x will blow her away.
Here are three top ones.
1. Spontaneous se x
Remember, women love to feel se xually
wanted and desired by their partners — and nothing says desire like
spur-of-the-moment se x on the living room stairs. Unplanned,
spontaneous love-making increases the lust factor by showing your
partner that your attraction for her trumps everything else. Turn her
on by telling her you need to have her right there and then, no matter
the time or the place. And depending where you decide to get busy, the
possibility of getting caught can also bring added excitement. In fact, a
study published in the Journal of Se xual Medicine reported that having se x in public is one of the top fantasies among women.
2. Rough se x
Most women, every now and then, want to
be se xually dominated by their partner. It appeals (once again) to her
need to be se xually desired — so desired he can’t help but ravish her
(with her permission, of course). Engaging in a little power play can be
a fun and exhilarating way to explore kink in the bedroom. First and
foremost, make sure she wants to play rough, and outline boundaries to ensure that you both feel
safe. Then, pull a little hair, do a little spanking, and even bust out
the blindfold and handcuffs if you’re feeling adventurous. Revel in the
pure lust this type of se x is driven by, indulge in animalistic
passion, and go ahead…get a little loud.
3. Sensual se x
This the type of se x that most men
already assume women want. Candles, a relaxing bubble bath, full body
massage, mood music in the background — it’s the stuff of a Danielle
Steele novel. Start by clearing both your schedules, set a se xy
environment, and let her know you’ve got all night to
focus on her pleasure. Shut off your cell phones, turn off the TV, and
anything else that will distract you from reaching new levels of
intimacy with your lady. Remember that foreplay is the bread and butter
when engaging in a night of sensual se x. So take your time, go slowly,
and explore all of the erogenous zones on her body that so often go
neglected in the bedroom. Be passionate and engaged, and don’t be afraid
to tease her a little.