Relationships are a two-way thing; it needs understanding and cooperation from the two people who really care about each other to make it grow successfully but these days, most people forget about the essence of a relationship and let certain things come in the way of their relationship.
Selfishness is a bad relationship trait and it can totally destroy a relationship and somehow, many people exhibit selfish traits without even knowing it, while some know but still don’t care about it, and that is even a greater height of selfishness. There are some things many men do in a relationship/marriage which exhibits selfishness. Here are 6 selfish things men do while in a relationship
Being unfaithful even when married: “It’s really selfish for someone to cheat on a partner and what’s more selfish is for someone to cheat when married; the worst part is, men tend to cheat more in marriage when the woman starts giving birth so if you are in this category bro, sorry to say, but that’s SELFISHNESS.
Spend more money on a side chic: “This is another thing men are also a culprit of, they do a lot to get a lady and once she’s given in and have fallen for our antics, they tend to prefer spending more on a side chic to probably impress as well; there are so many married men who would frown at even gifting their wives but would easily shower loads of cash items (and expensive one at that on a side chic); if this is you, that’s SELFISH”.
Being overly authoritative: “Yes, the man should be the man, but sometimes, they tend to let their manly ego come in the way, even in their relationships; your wife, fiancée or girlfriend should be more than an object that’s subjected to force and command, such marriages and relationships are called a military marriage or relationship, your lady should be treated with respect, she should be listened to and her opinions should also count”.
Fight to win her and treat her like trash afterwards: “This is another common thing men subject women to; when a man is trying to woo a lady, he gives her this impression that he’s the best for her, promises to make her happy like no one would, and just after he gets her, a different song is played at the background, this also is SELFISHNESS; taking a woman’s emotions and feelings for granted is selfishness”.
Hit a lady at the slightest instance: “Search ‘domestic violence’ on Google or any other search engine and the results you would see is shocking; domestic violence is also a sign of selfishness; the beautiful body of a lady isn’t even taken into consideration as it’s hit by the violent man, the marks left on the body of that lady is enough proof that the man is just self-centred and doesn’t even care about the body of a woman he claims to love; you can’t claim to love a lady and hit her with all sorts of objects that isn’t allowed in a boxing ring, knowing the frail nature of a woman especially — that’s selfishness at its peak”.