Below are 4 ways your bad love experiences could make life easier and better for you in subsequent relationships.
You know when to leave a relationship: “Sometimes, people stay in a relationship even when it is obviously wrong to do so, they stay long in the toxicity, hoping for a change that will not come until they get fed up and move on and in subsequent relationships, due to the experience gained already, such people will recognise the moment a relationship becomes irredeemable, and move on at the very right time”.
You know what you do not want: “One of the best things to take out of a bad relationship is a better idea of things you cannot put up within a relationship. If you exit a bad relationship because of your partner’s continuous neglect of his responsibilities to you, surely, before entering into a new relationship, one of the things you will be sure to watch out for, is a man who takes his responsibilities seriously; it’s only natural to avoid the same bad things happening twice”.
You learn you’re still imperfect: “When you look back on your old relationships and how they ended, one of the things you might recognise is that you were not entirely faultless for the way they ended and there, is one of the ways your new relationship gets to benefit from those past relationships; instead of relaxing, thinking you already know everything about how relationships go, you approach the relationship with a firm idea in your mind of that flaw and the realisation that it has the capability to ruin this present relationship like it did one or some of the previous ones and the difference between then and now, however, is that you will not allow it ruin the beautiful thing you just found”.