1. Hiding your flaws and problems:
Love is all about transparency, complete transparency. When I was asking my girlfriend out she already knew everything about me before that she knew my weaknesses, my flaws, my problem and everything in between, I never hid anything from her because I wanted her to know me completely, she told me things about her past, painful things nobody else knew about, horrifying things, and I ended up loving her more for those things because she’s stronger than I am.
So by telling each other our flaws and weaknesses, we actually became stronger in each others’ eyes. So don’t hide anything, in the need to impress the other person, impress them with the truth, impress them with who you really are. I they don’t like the truth, they’re not right for you.
Your past can be your biggest weakness if you let it, don’t. I’ve seen so many couples facing a lot o tough times because one person was still too involved in the past, never let the past affect you present. We’ve all had dark times, we’ve all had traumatic situations that we had to go through, but the important thing to remember is that you’re out of that dark place now and you’re with someone who truly loves you, appreciate them and let them know their love is strong enough to make you let go of the past.
3. Getting even instead of forgiving
So your partner made a mistake, would you try getting even with them or would you forgive them? People make mistakes, it’s in their nature, you can’t hold it against them forever, the act of forgiveness is the most powerful act in existence you love them, remember that even when they hurt you or make a mistake, assume with the best of intentions and forgive. If you start getting eve with them, your relationship won’t last for very long.
That does it for this one. Hope you guys liked it and learned from it. As always, if you guys want to add anything, feel free to comment below. Stay blessed and keep the love alive!