There are different reasons why people get into relationships; for some, it is about genuine companionship and friendship but for others, it’s simply about the s3x. So how can you tell which one you’re in? It is not easy to tell, but then, with a bit of attention to your partner’s behaviour, you may just be able to because if you ask them yourself, they may lie, and that could even sell you off as overly desperate for affection.
So the best way is to study them, and be on the lookout for the following signs.HE FORGETS THINGS YOU TELL HIM: “Unless he’s genuinely suffering from amnesia, there’s no reason why your man shouldn’t be able to remember the important details you tell him about your life; he may not remember everything because honestly, he’s not expected to, but he should remember important events in your life, like your birthday at least, that shows care”.
HE WANTS S3X EVERY TIME YOU SEE: “S3x is a major part of most relationships; as long as it isn’t platonic, but then, it shouldn’t be the focal point. As much as you are expected to have and satisfy that s3xual urge, you should also find time to talk about your lives, he has to show interest in other things about you, not just your body”.
HE KEEPS APOLOGISING FOR THE SAME REASON: “Everyone is prone to making errors; it’s something that we all do as humans, but then, when you make a mistake, there should be an honest effort toward correcting and making sure it doesn’t happen again; if it happens more than once, it becomes a choice, a man can’t cheat on you all the time, and then, apologise for it over and over; it shows he’s not sensitive to your feelings at all”.
YOU’RE IN HIS LIFE, BUT NOT REALLY IN HIS LIFE: “You’re dating him, but you don’t get to meet his friends and family, you don’t get to be there on his birthday and other special occasions of his life, there’s definitely something not right somewhere; maybe you don’t matter to him as much as you think”.
Remember that these signs might not be 100% true but they are just observed patterns that have been there over time, so be very sure before you draw conclusions