Snooping on lovers’ phones is a common but not so cool thing to do. It always creates trouble far worse than an NYS scandal.

Just because you can, it doesn’t mean you should find out everything you possibly can about someone, even someone you’re sleeping with or married to. Sometimes it’s just better to remain ignorantly blissful. Here’s why:

1. You will definitely find something you wish you hadn’t.

Everyone has dirt. If your partner doesn’t want to tell you something, there is a reason for that. When you check your bae’s phone, you will find something weird- trust me. As hurting as it may be, it really does nothing to change the fact that it’s the plain truth. When you make that decision to snoop, you are bound to find something that you will not like at all, even if it is something that’s completely insignificant.

2. You might get caught snooping.

Getting caught snooping is just as disastrous as finding something you don’t like. When you are caught doing it, you will lack an explanation or even if you do, it will simply not be good enough. If your lover finds out you don’t trust them, they begin to lose interest in you. You surely don’t want that to happen, do you?

3. You will feel guilty. 

Whether you find something sinister or not, you will end up regretting the decision to snoop. Trying to dig up evidence is an uncool thing to do. If you happen to discover something, you might regret why you even bothered to know, and if you don’t, you will regret ever doubting your bae. Which brings me to my next point.

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