Today we will be highlighting 6 most common mistakes women make in the bedroom and what they can do to get the satisfaction back in their s3x lives.
Not initiating s3x with your partner: “In the olden days, our parents pumped into our brains that it is unladylike for a woman to come out openly and initiate s3x with her man; they felt that if a woman does that, she is seen as being pushy and aggressive but those times are long gone and men see women who allow them to do all the work as being prude but men want to be pursued by their partners just as much as women do, most guys feel like they are always the initiator and that sets up disequilibrium on the passion scale in the relationship; holding onto outdated ideas about s3x roles also inhibits s3xual satisfaction. show your interest by taking the first step from time to time”.
Assuming s3x is casual for a man: “Some women still hold to the old belief that s3x is just s3x for men while women are not s3xual at all but modern research has shown that s3x is a very important act for men and should not be minimized in any way; never assume that a man is not romantic, two huge mistakes in this culture are that women are not s3xual and that men are not as romantic as women, and this is a very wrong assumption held by many”.
Believing he’s always up for s3x: “Another big mistake women make with s3x is believing that men are always ready for it at anytime but the pressures of everyday life, – family, work, bills – can zap a man’s libido and this comes as a big surprise to many women, and often his lack of interest in s3x is something they take personal. play, when they discover he doesn’t want to have s3x, they think, “he doesn’t love me” but this is not true, he just doesn’t want to have s3x at that time and that does not mean he loves you less”.
Not giving him guidance: “Talking very directly about s3x, what one like and don’t like can make one feel uncomfortable, even with a partner one have been with for a long time and otherwise feel close to but it’s the only way to achieve a satisfying s3xual relationship; a woman must take responsibility for her s3xual encounter as no man can bring a woman to orgasm if she doesn’t take responsibility for her s3xual experience and even the best lover can’t know what she needs without her letting him know, do not assume that your man knows every part of your body and thus, knows what to do at every point in time”.
Getting upset when he suggests something new: “After a couple has been together for a while, it’s natural to want to spice things up with a little variety; just because your man wants to try something new doesn’t mean he’s unhappy with you or your s3x life so don’t take it personally, though it is important that you tune into your comfort zone; nobody should ever feel obligated to do something they don’t want to do in the personal and intimate area of s3xuality, so if your man asks you about trying something that’s outside of your morals, make it clear that it’s off limits for you and explain why”.