So if you find yourself trapped somewhere between the friend-zone and being a couple, below are some rules to follow.
No cuddling after s3x: “Cuddling has been scientifically proven to induce the hormone oxytocin, this hormone is also known as the ‘love’ hormone or the ‘bonding’ hormone; if you do not plan to invest feelings in a relationship, DO NOT cuddle”.
No interrogatory questions: “Where have you been?who were you with?you know these questions; in a friends with benefits situation both parties need to stay in their lane and respect each other’s privacy and right to be with other people. It is after all the difference between friends with benefits and a dating relationship”.
Limited physical contact: “This is similar to the limiting of texting, but it has to do with physical contact, when we are in people’s company excessively, it is easy to develop emotional attachment and even dependency; this emotional responsibility being the reason we choose to be friends with benefit in the first place ultimately leads to problems when it creeps up”.
No snooping around especially online: “No no no, worst thing you can ever do is develop paranoia over someone you aren’t even dating, it is bad enough when in a relationship, but at least you have some right to be paranoid; respect for the other person’s privacy is paramount and looking at who they are liking or commenting on online is a recipe for disaster”.