The ‘socialite mentality’ is a disease that seems to have afflicted most 20-something year old ladies. Signs of this malady are manifested by sudden realization that they are the ‘hottest’ in their area.
The infected wear skimpy clothes, and capture their ‘amazing’ outfits on android phone and proceed to post these pictures on social media for attention.
Ladies, if you want to capture attention and earn the respect of people, go the Lupita Nyon’go way. Explore your talents, develop your ideas and work relentlessly until you break a record. Then the men leading equally successful lives will come for you and have you for keeps.
Any responsible man holds his family with highest regard. He will go out of his way to create time for his parents and take very good care of them at all cost. Before considering a lady for a serious relationship, a man will first try to ascertain her view towards family.
If she disrespects her parents, lives oblivious of her siblings and talk down on people then she is considered anti-family. In the guy’s mind the lady will make a poor wife..just play with her and move on.
There is also a crop of ladies who are so close to their fathers/mothers yet raise ruckus whenever the guy wants to spend some quality time with his family, especially his mother. Trying to compete with a guy’s mother for his attention is a crazy idea.3) Lack of ambition
If you wish to have a guy consider you for marriage, then you should at least get focused with your life. Get your priorities straight, have ambitions, work towards achieving your goals and take your studies or job seriously. If all your ‘future plans’ happen to be on where the next coolest party is then don’t expect any guy to take you seriously.
4) Extreme materialism
Since the days of the cave men, women only mate with those who can provide and protect their families. However, it’s totally wrong to stick with a guy just because he can afford to sustain your expensive lifestyle only to disappear when his cash flow recedes.
It’s easy to spot a gold-digger. All she wants to do is hang out in fancy places, buy new cloths, shoes, phones, etc., etc. When you are together, you never get to have any meaningful conversations.