My bf and I have been together for a
while now and planning on having our marriage introduction by November
and marriage proper early next year.
I am an independent woman with a gud
job. As a matter of fact, ive never made any financial request from
this guy though he buys gift for me without requesting. He is doing well
financially too, he runs a recycling factory while I work with a
Things are working well between us
since the relationship started untill recently when we had some business
deals together ( my opinion though) cos I don’t understand him anymore.
He was broke at that time and needed to get some materials which he
never budgeted for
He requested that I invest in his
company by paying for those materials since they’re coming cheap and he
doesn’t have enough to get them at that time and wouldn’t want to loose
the opportunity. I consented to the idea cos I knew he’s business was
very lucrative and that I’ll get my money back with interest.
He promised to be paying me a weekly
dividend so I thought of giving 1 million naira. I made an instant
transfer of 500k to his account as dts the maximum I can do daily
without a token and I wasn’t with it then.
The 2nd day dt I was suppose to send
the remaining money, some issues occurred in his company in my
presence. He had some major issues with some of the equipments in his
factory. He had to stop productions for some days. So i with held the
balance as it wont be neccesary since there was no production.
While repairs were ongoing? I had to
liase with some of my junior colleagues at work who are engineers to
help my bf cos I found out he’s engineer’s aren’t capable of handling
the situation as dts the first time he would experience such. As God
will have it operations started back in few days with the support of my
My concern now is since things went
back to normal in my bf compan’ he’s yet to keep to his promise of the
weekly dividend he said I would be receiving from the investment. As a
matter of fact , things has changed between us cos he no longer call and
hardly pick my calls.
I communicate with him mostly thru
SMS now since he wouldn’t pick my calls. I’d sent messages to him to
return my money without interest and he has promised to pay back with no
time and date of when he’s going to pay back.
I even had plans of going to his
place today since i’m off work so as to force him to go to the bank with
him so that I can get my money but he left the house early in the
morning with excuses that he has a place to go and would return to my
place after leaving there.
Please guys how best can I get this
money back from him cos I know he has it but playing pranks on me. I
don’t mind loosing my relationship with him as I don’t trust him any