Good relationships are hard to find. People find their special someone
but very often fail to nurture their relationship afterwards. Most men
put their best foot forward when they pursue the women they love, but
their effort diminishes as their relationship develops and progresses.
This eventually causes their relationship to break apart. However this
does not mean that only men are to be blamed for failed relationships.
There are two sides to every coin, women also engage in things that ruin
relationships. But here, we would be focusing only on what men do to
make relationships go sour. These are ten of the biggest mistakes that
men make in relationships.
1. He fails to be the man
Every woman wants her man to he her knight in shining armor. Every
guy should show confidence and command over every situation. A girl
should always feel safe knowing her man can protect her from every
situation. It is also important that you know how to make firm decisions
for yourself and for both of you. In short, be the man!
2. He wants her to see things his way
All men admit that they may never fully understand the way women
think. But to make a relationship work, a guy has to accept that men and
women have a different way of understanding and accepting things. A man
cannot expect a woman to always see things the way he does because she
will always have her own perspective and views about certain issues.
4. He makes her feel unimportant
Every girl should feel that she is important to the man she is in a
relationship with, otherwise she will begin to question his love for
her. Some guys become too busy or distracted with other things that they
forget that their partner needs time and attention too. It’s just a
matter of time before a girl gives up on a guy who makes her feel
neglected and unimportant.
5. He is insensitive to her feelings
Women are more sensitive than men, and guys should know that. Women
also tend to say that they are okay even if there is something bothering
them. A man should be sensitive enough to read between the lines and he
should be aware when things don’t seem to be okay between them. He
should be aware of his partner’s feelings and he should always be ready
let her know that he is there to comfort her when she is down. Failing
to recognize when a woman is sad or angry at you often leads to a lot of
conflict in a relationship.
He has lost her trust and respect
Trust and respect are two important factors in keeping a
relationship strong. If a guy does things that make a girl lose her
trust and respect for him, then he can never make her see him the same
way she did before. Guys who cheat and lie will never be able to handle a
He becomes the enemy
A woman should feel safe with her man. He should be the guy she runs
to whenever she has a problem. But when a guy fails to support a girl in
her time of need, or he opposes the things that matter to her then she
will begin to see him more of an enemy than her partner.
He is too selfish
Successful relationships require a give and take between a man and a
woman. If a guy is too self absorbed, then their relationship is a one
way street that leads to a dead end.
He forgets to appreciate her
To a woman, every little compliment counts. It makes her unhappy
when her man fails to appreciate her and her efforts to make him happy.
If she is constantly criticized by the one person she seeks approval
from, then there is a chance that she will get tired of being ignored.