Trust is an essential ingredient a relationship should have, to be successful, trust makes it easier for love to grow, but an absence of trust will only fill the relationship with negative vibes. Trust is missing in many relationships today, and many people don’t trust their partners.
Are you one of those partners that aren’t trusted? Below are some of the reasons why your partner doesn’t trust you.
You’re two faced: “If you act one way in front of him and then another way in front of your parents, he may start wondering about you, if you can hide who you are from other people, who’s to say you’re not hiding things from him as well? The same goes for telling lies because if he hears you being dishonest with others, he can wonder if you are dishonest with him as well”.
You’re not honest all the time: “Tell your man the truth, even small lies add up over time, it is better to just tell the truth rather than risk eroding the trust in your relationship”.
You’re secretive: “If you’re a secretive person, it can be hard for your man to trust you, especially if he’s been betrayed by you or someone else before so, be as open as you can about who you’re talking to, emailing, texting and spending time with”.
You don’t have his back: “Your man needs to feel like you’re on his side, if you disagree with him, it’s better not to do it in mixed company, support him at the moment and if it’s important, you can tell him about which points you disagree with, in private but “iour man can’t trust you if you throw him under the bus in front of other people but he will appreciate it if you reserve your disagreements until the appropriate time”.
You try to control everything: “If you take over everything, you never give your man the opportunity to do his thing, this sends him a silent message that you have no faith in him and you don’t trust him and why should he trust you if you don’t trust him? trust is learned and earned and it is a two-way street so to build trust with your man”.