And after a breakup comes the blame and ladies will never blame themselves for a breakup because it takes two people to make a relationship work the same way it takes two to break the relationship.
Here are the biggest reasons why your relationships don’t last.
You listen to their friends too much: “Guys understand the need for female friendship but when you start letting your single girlfriends who constantly run guys off or haven’t dated since ages, it get into the business of your relationship, that’s asking for trouble”.
Your relationship is NOT a family affair: “You are matured enough to leave home and keep what goes on between you and your partner just between you guys, if you tell your mom and your sisters about every single argument and disagreement that you have, then they’re not going to like your man very much?”.
You are not joined at the hip with your partner: “You don’t have to go every single place that your partner goes, don’t try to drag your man with you if it’s going to be nothing but you and the girls talking they don’t want to sit and listen to talk about hair, nails, fashion, who’s man is cheating on who, etc”.
There’s no future in the past: “We’ve all made mistakes, the thing is to learn from them, not live in them so if your man made a mistake, and you’ve agreed to forgive him for it, then do that and don’t bring it up and keep beating him over the head with it because if you keep bringing up the past, then be prepared to talk about your man in the past tense, as in “ex”.
Being too dependent: “Men want a grown woman who can handle her business, but still, let them know that there’s a place in her life for them that only them can fill, you’re not a child, and they don’t expect to treat you like one or take care of you like one but if you come to a guy for every single thing, and can’t seem to make up your mind or make decisions … well, one day he will make up his mind and not come back”.