
I am 32 years old. Me and my ex-hubby dated for six years, I started
dating him whilst I was in grade 12, I was 19 years old. We were best of
friends, I waited until he completed college and started work, my
family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (7 years
old now).
My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I
wanted to make him feel he can’t control me. Every time we argue, I
would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone
my husband and shout at him. If he is controlling me I would always dare
him that if you wish to divorce me- I never wanted to divorce, I just
had pride and I never wanted to look a lose in his eyes.
One day I pushed him so had that for the first time he beat me and lock
me out side, I went to my family, my family took him to police, every
time I looked like I am being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse
my husband emotionally.
He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing is wrong.
My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed
him to the wall. Of which he openly knelt down and apologised. I
withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.
After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he
remained alone. After two days I received a call that he is in the
hospital, my family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it will
look like am begging him, and my sisters believed he is faking the
illness.
All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.
He spent a week in the hospital after he came out, I just received a
divorce summon. I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this
pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me, I called him and say
he will get the divorce because I live like am in hell.
When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court
that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told
the court that whatever he and me acquired together should be given to
me, all he wanted was divorce.
We got divorced in 2009 July. Now, this Saturday my husband is getting
married again, whilst I am here wasted! My family are gossiping about
me, I depend on what my ex gives to my son for survival.
I know I wasted my marriage. I am here telling all wives to be careful
how you get advise. Don’t be cheated. Even my young sisters are much
more respected than me. Those who encouraged me to divorce are always
bad mouthing me.
I thought its good to share. There is no benefit in pride.
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