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Falling in love with the right person is one of the sweetest feelings ever, having someone to share your feelings with always, someone to laugh with and share all your dreams and aspirations with; that is something every girl always pray to experience but the truth is most ladies are not ready for love and they only end up messing up their love stories.
Below are 6 things every lady should know before falling love.
Know what matters to you: Before you decide to go into a relationship, it’s best to assess yourself, know what matters to and what your values are, in other words, know what you want out of life and out of a relationship and get someone that shares those same values”.
Learn how to be independent: “Most ladies get it wrong here, you do not need men to run your life if you do what will happen when you are single again? Learn to cater for yourselves financially and emotionally as it’s not just all about finding a partner; it’s also about being a partner”.
Learn to have fun on your own: “Having the other “half’ is a cute idea, but doesn’t that imply that you’re only one-half of a person yourself? a relationship should be a bonus in an already happy life, not essential to make you happy if you need someone to make you happy, you’re not only placing a burden of responsibility on them but showing that you’re not a complete person”.
Learn how to be yourself: “We’ve all done it, tried to be the person we think that someone wants us to be but do you want to be loved for who you are, or change yourself to fit someone else’s”.
Learn how to be yourself: “We’ve all done it, tried to be the person we think that someone wants us to be but do you want to be loved for who you are, or change yourself to fit someone else’s ideas?learn how to be yourself; the best relationships are those in which we are with someone who loves us, flaws and all, and understands the type of person we are”.
What do you have to offer?: “Being in a relationship isn’t just about finding the right person for us, you also need to have something to offer them, it’s not just a one-way street”.




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