Ever thought that that couple that looks all happy and perfect from the outside may actually be in a one-sided relationship?almost everybody can relate to this because most people have been in a messy relationship at least once in their lives and the sad part of it is that they never even realise they are in a messy relationship.
Most of us are in the habit of making excuses to justify our partner’s indifferent behaviour to our relationships but no more of that from now on. Below are some tell-tale signs that shows you are in a one-sided relationship.
“Are you the one who is always initiating conversations and making plans because he is just not interested enough, do you guys refuse to exchange a single word if you say no to making a call? If that calls for a nod, you might have to rethink your relationship”.
“Even though some people are unable to express love as seamlessly as their partners but if all your adorable gestures and ‘I Love You’ go unnoticed and unacknowledged, then there is no way in the relationship”.
“If he no longer makes an effort to notice how you’re looking and compliment you, you might be in a one-sided relationship, love shouldn’t vanish in your relationship”.
“Nobody is always busy, so, if your plans are always being cancelled, thanks to your partner’s extended work meetings and boys’ night out, sorry but your relationship isn’t healthy”.
“He has no interest whatsoever in your problems, successes, failures, happiness, and sorrows, for him, you are just a person whom he is meant to speak to on a regular basis”.
“Whenever you make an attempt to speak about a relationship issue, he chooses to ignore the matter with a hand wave or an eye roll so at the end, you’re left to either solving it by your own or learning to live with it”.
“If you are the only memory bank of your relationship history, there might be things that you need to consider before going ahead, the landmarks of your relationship should be significant for the both of you”.
“Lastly, you’re constantly stressed out about an impending breakup, thanks to an unpredictable and indifferent partner, a happy relationship is definitely not one where you’re walking on eggshells”.