Unless you really want a one-night-stand, look out for these signs!
you are in a relationship with someone, you should best expect an
absolute whirlwind of emotions. That is a given circumstance because all
relationships are always driven by feelings of attraction and comfort. A
lot of times, physical attraction is what will pique the interest of
most people. We tend to go after people because we are attracted to
their appearances and how they carry themselves. Therefore it is normal
for two consenting human beings who are physically attracted to engage
in physical intimacy with one another. However, it must be understood
that just because someone is physically attracted to another person
doesn’t mean that he/she wants to establish an emotional relationship as
There have been numerous cases of men who are only looking for physical
intimacy with women; treating them as game and sport. In these
instances, they will attempt to deceive a woman to the point where she
thinks that he wants to genuinely be in a loving relationship with her,
but he is only looking for a fun night in the bedroom with her.
Ladies, you have to be very careful with these types of men. They have
no regard for your feelings and they are only looking out for
themselves. They will do whatever it takes to satisfy their carnal
cravings even if it means deceiving you. Here are a few signs that his
love for you is less than genuine, and that he only wants to get
intimate with you physically.
1. He rarely makes time for you unless it’s for sex.
He doesn’t make time for you unless you guarantee him a fun night in the
bedroom with you. Otherwise, he is just going to act disinterested and
unwilling. He doesn’t like to take time out of his schedule for your
dates, hangouts, or just random chill sessions. He only wants to be with
you when you’re looking to get physically intimate with him.
2. He doesn’t plan meticulous dates with you.
Dates are out of the question. He will only wine and dine you if you
make him believe that he has a shot at getting with you at the end of
the night. Otherwise, he wouldn’t be willing to spend his time nor money
on you at all.
3. He doesn’t integrate you within his social circles.
There’s no point in him wanting you to meet his friends because he’s not
looking for a real relationship with you anyway. He couldn’t care less
about having his friends liking you because he doesn’t like you that
much either. He’s not looking for anything emotional with you. To him,
it’s purely physical.
4. He doesn’t make an effort to make you feel safe.
He doesn’t check up on you when you’re not together. He never asks you
how you’re feeling. He won’t try to cheer you up when you’re feeling
down. He won’t take care of you whenever you’re sick. The point is that
he only thinks of himself and his own personal desires.