It can be pretty frustrating and annoying when you look forward to a fulfilling and satisfying s3xual experience with your man and only for the action to ‘finish’ before you have even started. Having s3x with a man who can’t keep it up more than a few seconds and cums within few minutes of pen3tation can leave one flat and disappointed.or
What can you do as a woman to make sure your man is giving you what you want in bed?how can you help your man last longer in bed? Below are some things to do when your man cums early.
Don’t ignore the problem:“The problem in the room, whether this is an out-of-the-blue occurrence, or you have been dealing with this for a while, do make sure you talk to your partner about it but do not bring this up in the bedroom, find a neutral ground and discuss openly and let him know you enjoy making love to him and it is because you enjoy it that you feel a bit down when he finishes before you”. “If he is willing to communicate, he might be able to pinpoint a root cause so you can both find a solution, most men want to last longer to please their women, so he should be willing to give you tips that will tone down his excitement”.
Slow down:“Men who cum too early are not big fans of quickies, the excitement and thrill might be too much for them to contain so slow down, keep things slow and easy and enjoy a gentle foreplay and keep the s3x light”.
Choose positions wisely:“S3x positions where women do more of the work are usually great for men with the quick draw, go with cowgirl, reverse cowgirl or any position where you are in charge as this will let you slow things down or even stop if you notice he is getting too excited because if he is in charge, he won’t be able to stop himself”.
Use condoms:“This may not work for all men, but a lot of men do say using condoms desensitises them to some extent, there are actually condoms in the market made for this purpose too so, if you have been going skinny dipping before now, then you should consider getting some condoms”.
Avoid overstimulating:“S3x feels so much hotter when you stimulate as much body parts as possible but for a man who cannot keep it in, the less stimulant, the better. If you usually tease him by playing with his n!pples or other erogenous zones during s*x, maybe you should cut back, give him a chance to focus on just penetration and see where that leads you”.
Get him to tone down masturbat!on/p0rn:“If your man is into extreme masturbat!on or porn0graphy, it is time to get him to stop, studies have shown that men who watch too much p0rn find it difficult to keep things under control because they are stimulated 24/7 so when they finally penetrate a woman, they are already almost there, causing them not to last long so get him to take a break for a couple of weeks to see if this changes things”.
Ladies first:” If you have tried all of the above and it’s not helping, then it’s time for him to put you first, have him focus on making you cum before penetration actually begins, he could perform oral on you, use his hands because focusing on your pleasure can keep him from getting too hot and if you’re lucky, you can evenorg@smbefore the real show begins and this will make you feel less disappointed besides, the fact that he has gotten you off will make him feel less pressured, so he can relax enough and actually last longer”.