Guys, we know it can be very frustrating when a lady you invite over with the intent of getting down on her, start forming holy Mary for you, it can be very annoying as well as frustrating but knowing how to handle the situation can make a whole lot of difference.
Here are tips on what to do when she is proving hard to get.
Don’t push it:“You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic and it will instantly turn her off as there is nothing arousing about being pressured for s3x so if she says no, let it be, simply pretend it does not bother you and don’t bring it up for a while she will be taken aback and begin to immediately question whether or not she will give it to you, which is what you want”.
Get her to relax:“The thing is that most women expect that visiting a guy means he will ask for s3x which causes them to put their guards up before they get to your place and even if she is willing to give it to you, she would still want you to work for it so, what you need to do is get her to bring down her guard by getting her to relax and if you ask and she says no, focus on other ways to make her feel comfortable with you watch a comedy, play some games, whatever makes her laugh and let go because it is only when she feels truly comfortable that she will consider having s3x with you”.
Make your move:“Now she is relaxed, comfortable and laughing with you, this is when you make your move, flirt with her by bringing s3x into the convo and try starting with something random compliment her and made her think about s3x with you”. Besides by using step 1 and 2 she will already be having an inner conflict whether to get down with you or not but try not to push it, just go with flirting and complimenting her and once she starts reacting to the flirting and flirt back with you, let her take the lead so she will have all the control to decide when she is ready to take things to the next level.
But note, the above tips will only work if she is attracted to you as a lady who is not attracted to you won’t have s3x with you and if she insists on not getting down with you after all the flirtings and cajole kindly respect her decision and let her be.
“There is absolutely nothing s3xy or manly about raping a woman or coercive s3x with a woman”