There is a reaction to every action; most ladies are naturally cautious when it comes to visiting a man at home and it’s not a lie to assume that 90% of women assume a man would want to have s3x with them when they visit him at home.
This assumption might not be totally true as some men are still decent enough not to throw s3x on a woman at the first visit, as a result of this s3x bugging assumption women have devised so many methods to protect themselves as much as possible from guys not to sleep with them on a first house visit.
“Having s3x may be inevitable in that relationship at the long run, but women are able to prolong the abstinence for as long as possible when they do take certain steps” Below are some means ladies have devised and use when they don’t want to have s3x with men anytime they visit them.
They act edgy:“Sometimes, ladies deliberately put up an edgy front when they visit men in their houses, they act uncomfortable and would be cold towards the guy till they leave and when a man sense this defence and aloofness and would rather leave them alone till they adjust”.
The red flag shows up:“Ladies know that men do not like hearing the fact that the red flag is on, most men would be irritated seeing the blood bank of the girls when they want to sleep with them so it is a natural turn off for men so ladies use it as a weapon and say they are on, some girls even go on to wear pads just to prove it is real”.
Keeping the door opened:“Ladies sometimes are on the defensive side and ask men to open the door to their rooms so people could see what is happening in the room, ladies feel comfortable this way as they know it is near impossible for the guys to attempt being funny or try to have s3x with them with the door wide opened”.
Stories that touch the heart:“Sometimes, ladies cook up all sorts of stories that would make men pity them; they talk about how they have suffered one or two forms of abuse in their previous relationships, they act traumatised and this would naturally throw the men off balance and it would be inappropriate for the guys to want to try anything funny after they have heard their heart touching tales”.
Wearing tight clothes:“Another thing ladies do when they go visit men in their houses is to wear tight clothes that have restrictions, it would be pretty difficult getting them out of the cloth and it would give them enough time to allow sanity creep back in peradventure they got carried away”.
Visit with a friend:“Ladies do not like visiting men for the first time alone, they would rather go with one or two friends that would help them break the tension that could be around the place because having one or two other girls in the room apart from the main girl visiting would spoil the show for the men”.
They avoid sitting on the bed:“Many ladies avoid sitting on the bed when they visit men as they feel they are falling into a trap, the bed makes them more cautious and to avoid being tempted or lured into doing something they do not want to do at that moment, they would rather sit on the chair”.
They focus on something:“Another thing ladies do when visiting guys in their houses is to concentrate on doing a particular thing, they will place all their attention on books or movies in order not to give the guys the time to want to get personal with them”.