
We all know that men sometimes can be very overbearing and sometimes
responsible for some actions their wives take but nevertheless, women
must understand that marriage is a great,decent and sacred institution
that must be treated with utmost respect and guided with all sense of
decency. To be frank,there are some silly things some married
ladies do that do not show any form of respect to them,their men and their marriage.
These are things that need to be avoided by the lady irrespective of
whatever excuse they may have. I have had many friends who have been
married and some are divorced and after discussing with them,i have come
to realize that some of these women were in fact the architect of their
failed marriages and i will try to elucidate on some of the awkward
things
ladies do that break up their marriages.
1. Poor communication:
In
every relationship we find ourselves,communication is vital. No one is a
mind reader and no matter what it may be that could be a reason for
your unhappiness,speak out immediately in a stern manner and not
lackadaisically. Many women are found of calling their hubby’s relatives
to complain about certain issues meanwhile the hubby at home does not
have an idea of how hurting they are concerning that issue.
2. Sharing their marital issue with a male admirer/friend.
Not
every guy you know is responsible. We have some low lives that has no
regard for any form of decency and it is no news that many guys are in
this category. When you discuss your marital issues with an admirer or a
male friend,most times what these guys hear is “I’m vulnerable,i need
you as a succor”. This is why most times,when a married woman take
solace in a male friend,the end result is usually an illicit affair.
3. Being careless with male friends.
I have always
maintained that there is nothing like just friends between a married
woman and another man. If he is not your childhood
friend,co-worker,co-student,business partner then you have no business
with him. Many married
ladies have a
careless habit of keeping male friends indiscriminately and worst still
get so careless allowing these guys call them by their maiden names. I
will never call a married lady by her maiden name because just as the
name suggests,its her unmarried name but will rather put Mrs,sis,madam.
When a married lady is called by her maiden name,it diminishes as well
as tarnishes her respect,image and matrimony giving room for a potential
unethical relationship between her and the “just male friends”.
4. Seeking vengeance.
Many married lady tend
to take some actions in order to prove to their hubby that a sauce for
the goose is also ok for the gander but unfortunately this will destroy
your marriage more. When you take a revenge on your hubby by sleeping
with another man because he cheats on you,of what use will that be to
you? What value will that add to your life? Learn to maintain your
dignity no matter what because at the end,the shame will all come back
to you and as I always reiterate. ..nobody can make you do what you are
not capable of doing.
5. Talking down on your hubby.
This is one foolish mistake many
ladies do.
You and your hubby are one and talking down on him means talking down
on yourself. It is one thing to voice out what he did and another to use
outright abusive words on him. In situations where a couple
separates,some
ladies will not mind
talking down on their hubby with a friend,their family and even with
male suitors and i keep wondering if the woman thinks this will earn her
any form of respect. If you call your hubby a sick man then what does
that make you? Or you call your hubby an asshole then it takes an
asshole to tango with such a man. No matter how angry you may be,don’t
ever rule out reconciliation and even if you are never going to
reconcile,respect your matrimony with him even if he deserves no respect
from you.
6. Moving out of their matrimonial home hastily over an avoidable reason.
What
excuse do you have for running out of your marriage? He cheated on
you,he does not give you attention,he took you for granted,he curses you
and many more are the excuses married
ladies hold
on to and i keep asking this one question; Will leaving solve the
problem? Even a divorce is not a way out because its a 50/50 chance that
the next man won’t be worse so i advice that you confront that problem
and try your best to solve it.
7. Believing there is always a better man out there.
This is one foolish thing married
ladies believe. That they will get a better replacement.There are more than enough never married
ladies out
there for the unmarried guys so you will do yourself a great honor by
sticking to your husband. There is really no better man out there and
except you are faced with an unrepentant violent man,please remain in
your marriage because you will soon realize that its the same cycle we
all go through in any union we find ourselves and there will always be
one reason to leave any man you are married to. Many women divorcees
realize this too late as they end up as a toy in the hands of randy
men,as second wife,or end up single for a long time as many men will
believe they are doing them a big favour by wanting to be with them. If
you must throw in the towel on your marriage,make sure you have
exhausted all means of reconciliation because i keep saying that it is
better to be single at 40 than to be a divorcee at 20 and a 40 year old
single lady is more maritally appealing than a 20year old divorcee,funny
but true so think very well before you run out of your marriage.
8. Sharing their marital issues with single female friends..
Seriously!
it may surprise you to know that most of your friends who are still
single are not happy that you are married so take your marital problem
to them at your own risk.
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