If you’re looking to liven up your Sx:’ life with your lady, and you think P0rn is the answer, here are 11 slow and S3x:’y ways to get her interested!Most girls, when their significant other mentions watching P0rn, turn up their nose and act disgusted. It’s an unfortunate reality, but that’s just how it is most of the time. For a lot of people out there, it can be a bit frustrating, if they want to kick-start the connection with their girlfriend by way of P0rn.
P0rn is a tool that can be used to liven up your S3x:’ life, but a lot of women just cast it off without a second thought. This leaves many men both upset and wary of asking again, for fear that they may upset their girlfriends further—and we all know that no one wants to deal with a cranky girlfriend.
Personally, I can see where some girls may have a hard time accepting that their significant others watch P@.rn—let alone actually enjoy it with their partner. Even if some women, including me, watch P@.rn from time to time, sharing that privacy with their significant other can be a challenge all on its own.
So how can you get your girlfriend interested in P0rn?
There are many different steps you can take in order to pique your lady’s interest in the P0rn world. While it can be scary at times, these tips can ease some of that fear and help you proceed with your goal.
#1 Ease into the idea. Don’t tell her mid-hookup that you guys should watch P0rn. This is HUGE no-no. She will immediately dismiss the idea, and she may even dismiss you altogether! I can definitely understand that one.
Why? Because if you two are in the middle of some great foreplay and your thoughts are about P0rn, she is definitely going to think that she’s not enough to get you going. Even if that was not how you meant it, if you ask her in the middle of anything physical, she will think this and you will be doomed.
That way, she will be intrigued to know more about why you want to, and she won’t feel like she’s being pushed up against a wall and forced to make a decision. If the two of you are just calmly hanging out and a P@.rn-like scene happens to pop up on a movie, make a comment about how it would be cool to try.
#3 Explain why it would mean a lot to you. Don’t start by saying how you want to make things more interesting in bed. She will quickly make the assumption that she’s not doing enough and that you’re bored—even if you just want to add something to your already-amazing S3x:’ life.
Explain that you love where things are, but maybe you can try something new—give it a little something that’ll take it from great to amazing! Just tell her what you’re thinking about it, and that it would be a great way to discover new things.
#4 Make her feel S3x:’y about it. If you really want to get your girl thinking about trying P0rn with you, then tell her how attractive you think it is. By telling her that you think it would be really S3x:’y to watch her watching P0rn, you’re taking the emphasis off the P@.rn and focusing it on her.
#5 Choose P0rn that is meant for couples. If you got her to agree to try P0rn, do NOT *and I repeat do NOT* start with a video that has 3 girls that are all young, hot, and in their prime. This will turn her off right away. No woman wants to be compared to one other woman, let alone 3 others that are N@kkd and stunning.
Start with something softer and more couple-oriented. Getting her to watch something that’s romantic and sultry will get her more interested in that type of P0rn, but may also make her curious about the other types.
#6 Pay attention to her, too. I know it’s exciting to see different N@kkd women on screen, but you have a really amazing N@kkd woman right next to you in real life—appreciate her! If you’re paying too much attention to the video and not enough to her, she will get turned off and, quite frankly, insulted.
She agreed to watch P0rn with you, not watch you watching P0rn. That’s a quick way to make her feel inadequate.
#8 Show her how much it makes things better. Once you’ve got her watching P0rn with you, make sure she sees that it definitely revs your engine and makes getting jiggy with you that much better. By showing her that there’s a purpose and even a reward to her being interested in P0rn, she will more likely continue that behavior.
#9 Don’t use it every time. As much as it may make things a lot better in bed, you shouldn’t use it every single time. She will start to think that you’re dependent on it, and that can turn her off to watching it in the future.
You can use it frequently, but also make some nights special for her, and focus all of your attention on her. That way, she will realize that it’s her that gets you going and not just the P0rn. She will be much more interested in adding P0rn back into the mix if you do this once in a while.
#10 Make sure she knows that you don’t NEED it. Because, really, you don’t. In all honesty, you can probably manage without perfectly fine. But if you constantly use it in order to have S3x:’ with your lady, she’s going to get bored and uninterested in it—which is the opposite of what you want!
So toss the laptop aside some nights and keep things spontaneous. She will be dying to see what else you have in store and she will also be more accepting of throwing P0rn back in the mix next time.
Every couple needs a little something extra in their S3x:’ lives sometimes. If P0rn is what you wish to use, it can be difficult to convince your girlfriend to give it a go. With these 11 tips, you will have an easier time getting her interested—and maybe even hooked!